Netta on Mother's Day for the family tea at the Atholl Arms
Netta (Janet) Macintyre:
born in Keiss 20th May 1924 - died Kingussie 8th April 2018
Netta, CRM's mother and my mother-in-law, died peacefully and without pain early this morning in St Vincent's Hospital, the local hospital in Kingussie.
Back in 2013 Netta had an operation for bowel cancer, which gave her nearly five more years of life. Unfortunately her cancer returned at the end of 2017. Aged 93 Netta decided that she did not want to undergo any treatment other than pain control. She bore her illness with fortitude and dignity remaining cheerful, even though at times Netta was clearly in pain. Always keen to be fully alert she was at times reluctant to take her painkillers, although Netta never refused her small evening glass of Croft Original Sherry – her true 'medicine'!
Netta had been admitted to St Vincent's on Monday 26th March when she became very agitated. The doctor's advice was that she was unlikely to survive. Remarkably by the following morning she was sitting up in bed and fully alert. This continued through the rest of the week and into the morning of Monday 2nd April.
Netta had a great thirst for life. She loved meeting and chatting to people. It was typical that last Monday, her last morning of consciousness, she was busy writing and making phone calls – telling her friends that she was going home on Tuesday afternoon. Her last letter was to her 99-year-old friend Edna, who will be 100 in August.
Sadly she never got home. Around Monday lunchtime she took a turn for the worse and had to be put on a pump to contain the pain. This medication put her into a deep sleep from which she never emerged.
Netta was born in Keiss, a village on the Caithness North Sea coast just a few miles north of Wick, which was once a fishing village. Later the family moved to Wick – her father was a fisherman. Netta trained as a nurse – initially at Wick and then at Inverness, where she met Jimmy, her husband. They married in December 1946 and were together for nearly 65 years.
Netta and Jimmy renewing their wedding vows
on their Diamond Wedding Anniversary
with Rev. Peter Donald
Jimmy and Netta celebrating their Diamond Wedding
16.12.2006
When Jimmy died at the end of January 2011 Netta moved to a flat in Newtonmore where she soon made a new and extensive circle of friends.
She will be remembered by many people for her kindness, caring and her community work over many years in Inverness for Abbeyfield, Raigmore Hospital and other organisations. In March 2003 she was named as one of Scotland's Unsung Heroines at a reception to mark International Women's Day held at the Great Hall, Edinburgh and hosted by Helen Liddell MP, then Secretary of State for Scotland.
Netta was a famous baker – her pancakes were legendary. She always had a remarkable pin-sharp memory for people and events.
She received remarkable and devoted care from the Highland NHS – from the community nurses – Karen, Mary, Dawn, Caroline and others, her doctor – Mary Cauldbeck, and the staff at St Vincent's Hospital, Kingussie.
My slip on black ice on 2nd January of this year that separated my quads from my left knee proved to be fortuitous. It would have been impossibly painful to be driven back to London after my operation at Raigmore Hospital, Inverness to reattach my quads. It was also evident that Netta, always fiercely independent, now needed some support, so we stayed on at Newtonmore. It has been a great privilege for Carole and I to help support Netta during her final months.
Netta is survived by her four children – Carole, Douglas, Anne and Tom – and a large extended family including four grandchildren and a great grandchild.
Netta remained very attached to Caithness and its special landscape (the 'big skies') – always keen to make return visits.
Netta was a famous baker – her pancakes were legendary. She always had a remarkable pin-sharp memory for people and events.
Karen Shaw – Netta's main community nurse
She received remarkable and devoted care from the Highland NHS – from the community nurses – Karen, Mary, Dawn, Caroline and others, her doctor – Mary Cauldbeck, and the staff at St Vincent's Hospital, Kingussie.
My slip on black ice on 2nd January of this year that separated my quads from my left knee proved to be fortuitous. It would have been impossibly painful to be driven back to London after my operation at Raigmore Hospital, Inverness to reattach my quads. It was also evident that Netta, always fiercely independent, now needed some support, so we stayed on at Newtonmore. It has been a great privilege for Carole and I to help support Netta during her final months.
Netta is survived by her four children – Carole, Douglas, Anne and Tom – and a large extended family including four grandchildren and a great grandchild.
The funeral will be held on Tuesday 17th April at Saint Bride's Church, Glen Road, Newtonmore, PH20 1DT at 3pm. Family flowers only please.
Netta celebrating her 90th birthday
Netta on the beach @Colonsay for Ruaridh and Susie's wedding
April 2016 (foto: CRM)
Isabel, Charlie, Netta and Carole
mid-February 2018
Pink and purple were her favourite colours
Netta with her favourite hat
2018
Netta & Carole:
2018
April 2016 (foto: CRM)
mid-February 2018
2018
2018
Netta lunching @ The Letterbox Restaurant
- mid-March 2018
Netta's last outing: 1st April 2018
The first Sunday in April was warm and sunny – a welcome change from the long winter. It was warm enough to Netta to go out in her wheelchair with her son, Tom, and his daughter, Zoe.
Netta – still alert and bright eyed
with Tom and Zoe
Zoe and Netta
2 comments:
It is with sadness that I read the news that Netta has passed away. Netta has regularly featured in the pages of your blog, usually as the focus for a celebration, and she was clearly a much loved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend. Please pass on our condolences to Carole and the family at this difficult time for you all.
Many thanks Gaynor. Netta got her wish to die peacefully in her sleep.
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